So, after thinking about it all day long, I came to the realization that my mistake every time I try to date a guy, is exactly that! Trying to date him! I also found this article. It really helped me put things into perspective...
"If you've fallen head over heels for a guy you had a date with, met online or in any other situation, just be patient! Take your time getting to know him. Be sure not to panic if he doesn't call you on a daily basis or if you two aren't picking out china patterns after a week of romance. If you guys hit it off, chances are he's into you as much as you are into him, but any potential relationship will be much better off if you take it slow and get to know him. First impressions are great, but you can only get to know a person well after spending time with them. Who knows, he may turn out not to be the person you thought he was. On the other hand, he might just be the man of your dreams. Only time will tell!"
taken from: http://gaylife.about.com/cs/lovedating/qt/time.htm
I now know that a relationship takes time and that i can't expect that the guy i just met wants to jump right away into a relationship with me... We need to spend time together as just friends or prospects, at the most, to get to know each other... I know that, witht the right time, I can get any guy to fall in love with me... At least I think I can... LOL But, I mean, in High School I had this straight friend, and we spent a lot of time together, he's a writer as well and we shared what we wrote, we gave each other feedback and after the 3 years of HS, I was pretty sure he was in love with me... As a matter of fact, EVERYONE knew he was in love with me... Everyone but me, that is... So, I guess if I just give them guys time to get to know me, I will -finally- be able to get a relationship!
Don't judge me, I'm not completely desperate, it's just that, in the oh, so wise words of Charlotte York, "I've been dating since I was 15! I'm exhausted! Where is Him?!?" LOL
Anyways, I'm feeling much better now I have an attack plan... So, guys out there... BEWARE! LOL
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